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Well, I had a great weekend, I drank, I danced, I...had a great time.





My lovely boy was with his father this weekend. We switched custody around and will now each have him for five days at a time vs. the hectic way we were doing it before. I cannot complain, not at all. There are a lot of single Mom's out there who's children rarely/never see their father. I WILL NOT complain about our custody arrangements. I have my moments where I really miss my son and disagree with how his father disciplines him, but he is a good father and a good man. I am very fortunate.



When my lovely boy is with his father it gives me time to hang out with my friends and go out on dates. I don't have to pay for a babysitter and I don't feel guilty leaving him with someone. It is truly a blessing.



I did go out on a couple of dates this weekend with Boy Wonder and even my Man in Waiting. It's been a long day though, I'll talk about it another time. Like I said, it was a great weekend...

Motorcycle rides, New Restaurants, and Good Friends

I went to lunch with Boy Wonder yesterday. He took me on his motorcycle...it was hot, he was hot, we both looked hot.



I knew he had a motorcycle and asked him if he would take me for a ride one day. Well the weather has been so nice that I couldn't wait for him to offer so I just told him too. To take me to lunch on his motorcycle that is...In true Melissa fashion I was impatient and thought it best for me to make a suggestion instead of waiting for him. We work in the same building so it wasn't like he had to go out of his way to come get me. It was great though...I had total trust in him, I wasn't scared at all. Plus it was a nice excuse to have my arms wrapped around his tight abs : )



Tonight I had dinner with two very close girlfriends of mine. We went to a new restaurant that opened up this past month, a French Bistro. It was a great time. The food was great. The company was great. I had a lovely evening. When we were leaving the owner/chef thought he recognized me. I can only hope he saw me at another restaurant and admired the fact that I enjoyed new food, good food, because I have no idea who he was.



I plan on going back to the restaurant, taking different friends. I love seeing people who's opinions I value critique a place that I think is special.

This restaurant was special, it has a very good vibe. Maybe I will take Boy Wonder next...he asked if I wanted to go for a longer ride.

I dunno

Two guys, ok, well technically 3, no 4 men are in my life right now that I care about. So frustrating, I could add like 5 more if I included my father and step father, and you get the idea...



So anyways, there are 4 guys in life: my son, he is the only constant and the only one who I truly care about. There is his father, I love him and care about him but not "like that", and then there are the 2 guys I am currently dating...I don't even know where to start with how to explain either one of them, or rather, WHY AM I DATING TWO GUYS AT ONCE?!?!



Regardless I care about them, I love my son, I like both guys. They have different positives and negatives about them as do I or any person for that matter...but what I see the most is that romance isn't everything with these guys. They are not all about wining and dining me, which is a good thing. They are honest and guttural with their feelings and have yet to disguise anything from me, at least that is what my gut feeling is telling me. The point is, they have seen me at my ugliest-sweaty, out of breathe with no make-up from running too hard, in a super bad mood, but also at my weakest, as in with my son whom I have never brought any new man around in the past year since I have been single or with my family whom I love more than life itself.



I dunno, I thought I would use this blog as a sounding board. A sounding board to myself not only about these 4 men, because let's face it there is only one constant, but also about the
unromantic, super geeky, sporty, ridiculous things I enjoy doing in my life. Here goes...